"I am a survivor and I come here because I can't forget them." Christine Petosa, 36, of Middletown, N.J., right, is consoled by her sister, who would not give her name, at a World Trade Center Memorial for the 37 residents who died on 9/11 in Middletown, N.J. Thursday Sept. 11, 2008. Petosa worked at the World Trade Center where she escaped that day. David Goldman for the New York Times.